But they didn’t see the 5 years of methodical, boring, consistent work.
And then came the hardest moment of all.
One evening, my girlfriend called me.
“I feel like you care more about triathlon than me,” she said. “If you had to choose… me or the sport?”
It crushed me. But deep down, I already knew the answer.
I chose the sport.
That might sound harsh, and trust me—it wasn’t easy. I’ve missed birthdays. Friendships faded.
I’ve made sacrifices I still carry with me.
But that moment taught me something that applies no matter what goal you’re chasing:
There comes a time when you have to stop kinda wanting it… and make the sacrifices necessary to reach your goals.
Because as the saying goes. You can have anything...
But you can't have everything!
You don’t need to abandon your relationships, or give up your life.
But you do need to choose—every day—between short-term comfort and long-term purpose.
It means asking a question that becomes your compass:
Does this move me closer to the life I want?
That kind of focus?
It’s what separates dreamers from doers.
And it’s what turns potential into performance.
Here’s the 4-step method that got me to the top 1%—and works whether you want to go pro, run your first 10K, or just feel proud of the athlete in the mirror:
Reverse Engineer the Goal Define what “success” looks like for you. Then break it down into measurable pieces. Know the numbers. Create a roadmap.
Train Like the Athlete You Are Stop copying elite routines. Build your own base. Master the level you're at. Then grow from there.
Only Add More When Progress Slows Don’t chase more. Chase better. Add volume, intensity, or complexity only when your body and mind are ready.
Commit Like There’s No Plan B No more halfway. No more dabbling. Design your environment, schedule, and habits around your goal. Every decision should serve the mission.
This isn’t just for elite athletes.
It’s for anyone who’s tired of spinning their wheels.
Tired of the “start-stop” cycles.
Tired of wondering if they’ve got what it takes.
You do.
You just have to decide.
Nicklas
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